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How to photograph strangers (and get a yes)

Consent, courtesy and a few honest techniques for street portraits that feel good for both sides of the lens.

Street portraits can be the most rewarding photographs you’ll ever take. They can also feel intimidating. The good news: the approach that gets the best photographs is also the most respectful one.

Start with consent

When a person is clearly the subject of your photograph, ask. A smile, a gesture towards your camera and a simple “May I?” goes a long way. Most people say yes, and the portrait that follows is usually warmer than anything taken from a distance.

If someone says no, or looks uncomfortable, thank them and move on. A no is never a problem; pushing past it always is.

Moments to leave alone

  • People in distress, or in private or vulnerable situations
  • Prayer and religious moments, unless you’ve been welcomed in
  • Children, unless a parent or guardian has agreed

How to ask, in practice

  • Approach from the front, so you’re never sneaking up on anyone.
  • Be specific. “The light on your shop is beautiful” works better than a vague compliment.
  • Keep your camera visible and your body language relaxed.
  • Take a few frames, then show the person the photograph.
  • Offer to share it. Sending someone their portrait is a lovely way to say thank you.

The craft, briefly

Look for soft light, such as open shade or a doorway, and a simple background. Focus on the eyes. Shoot a little wider than you think, because environment tells half the story. Then wait for the second frame: people often relax right after the first click.

On our walks, mentors model this approach first, so asking feels natural by the time it’s your turn.

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